In the last few weeks, I’ve learned that divorce is one of the hardest things anyone can go through. I wouldn’t wish it on my enemy, especially if my enemy had children. My parents split when I was young so, as far as I was concerned, I only had 1 parent. I never remember living in a house with 2 parents.
With divorce, you don’t want to choose sides but you want to maintain the relationships as they were before (in most cases). It’s just so difficult. Add to that the fact that people outside of the relationship rarely know everything that goes on and you have a recipe for hard times. I only hope things get resolved and back to normal soon.
I am making a promise to myself to never get divorced. If that means never getting married, so be it.